Wednesday, April 27, 2011

Easter... a.k.a. Another Hoilday on Which I Go Overboard.

 Easter Basket - Packed to the Brim

I hope everyone enjoyed their Easter!  We enjoyed ours - a lot.  Too much really.  We now have 3 gallon bags of candy hidden under my sewing table and have no idea what to do with it (we didn't get that much candy during Halloween!).  And I'm open to suggestions on what to do with said candy that don't involve me gaining 10 lbs. Confession - I have a bad very bad habit of going overboard when it comes to my kid.  Easter was once again, no exception.  I really need to learn some self control  - or talk to a therapist about why I do such things, though deep down I already know why and this just isn't the forum for such. 

Dyeing Eggs Then Finding Them!

But we did have a wonderful Easter - dyed eggs, went to way to many egg hunts, ate entirely too much!  And the holiday seems to have ushered in summer - hot and humid ya'll - and reminders that our little guy will be two in mere weeks and that means Momma has a lot of work to do!  I was inspired by Jill and the birthday party she did for her little guy to make everything on my own.  We'll see how crafty I can really be.  But I did design the invitations and they are going out in the mail today (another post on putting the party together and designing it later)!  I'll be a very busy bee the next few weeks!

 Watching the Bumble Bees Work!

 

Tuesday, April 26, 2011

Menu Plan Monday...



Well, daycare was closed yesterday so I got an extra day to enjoy with my little man.  I didn't get to hop online much at all though - so I'm a day late in posting this menu but it was so nice to get the chance to be with him for a day - makes me wish I could stay at home with him all the time!  I've got tons of catching up to do today and this week though!  Long weekends can be rough on a working Momma when she gets back to her desk!  And even though this post is late, I'm still linking up over at orgjunkie.com so be sure to head over there and check out all of the great menus and blogs!

Sunday - Traditional Easter Meal with family :)  Egg hunt included!
Monday - Leftovers
Tuesday - Sauteed chicken with squash and zucchini and rice
Wednesday - Tacos with chips and salsa
Thursday - Ham steak, mac&cheese, and sugar snap peas
Friday - Family night out - my Sister is coming to town! 
Saturday - Pizza - considering the grill though since we'll have company in town! 


Tuesday, April 19, 2011

Curtains Done...


This past weekend was jammed packed with pre-Easter events but I did manage to sneak some time in at my sewing machine and in no time at all I had some black-out curtains up for little man.  They sewed very easily, and now he's sleeping a little later in the mornings and going down a little easier with it getting lighter and lighter outside at his bedtime!  I'm so glad I didn't spend the money to buy them (I was a little scared of the black-out fabric).  The only thing is that they may need to be dyed navy when we go to a big boy bed!

Monday, April 18, 2011

Seafood Mini Series... Part 2



For part 2 of my Seafood Mini Series I want to share some of our favorite shrimp recipes!  We are very lucky that my husband can throw a cast net like no other!  As fall approaches there are large runs of shrimp in our area and he fills up our freezer every time :) (and usually a few other freezers too...).  We also will roast oysters once or twice each winter and we purchase softshell crabs from a commercial fish house in Wanchese (a very tucked away place on the Outer Banks).  But those are strictly for frying :) 


Spicy Shrimp (you'll see this on our Menu Plans quite a bit)
1 lb shrimp shelled and de-veined
2 Tbs olive oil
Chef Paul Prudhomme's Blackend Redfish Magic (Old Bay will Substitute) to taste

Heat the olive oil, add the shrimp and seasoning.  Simply saute the shrimp until they turn pink.  Serve over rice with corn on the cob.  Also good on top of a salad in place of chicken.  Cooking Note: The biggest mistake people often make is over-cooking seafood, as soon as they are pink they are done usually about 6 minutes for medium sized shrimp (also known as 20 count = about 20 shrimp per pound).



Basic Boiled Shrimp
2 lbs shrimp (rinse in cold water)
1 beer (whatever is on hand)
1/2 c. Old Bay Seasoning

In a large pot boil 6 cups of water along with the beer.  Once it is at a rolling boil, add the shrimp.  Boil the shrimp for 6 to 8 minutes and drain.  While they are still hot coat them in the Old Bay.  I usually dump them in a Tupperware and shake away, just make sure to vent the container every few shakes because of the steam.  Then serve hot or refrigerate and serve cold later.

Cocktail Sauce for Boiled Shrimp
1/2 c ketchup
2 Tbs Horseradish Mayo (or more or less to taste)
A few shakes of Worcestershire Sauce
A few squirts of lemon juice

Mix it all up and you're ready to go!
 



Teriyaki Shrimp
1 lb shrimp shelled and de-veined
2 Tbs olive oil
2 Tbs teriyaki sauce
1 small can of crushed pineapple (drained)

Heat the olive oil, and add the shrimp.  As the shrimp start to turn pink add the teriyaki sauce and pineapple.  Serve over rice.




Shrimp & Grits

Stove top grits (I usually make what it directs for 4 servings, also substitute the water with chicken stock)
1 lb shrimp shelled and de-veined
2 pieces of bacon
1 to 2 Tbs of olive oil (depending on how much bacon fat is rendered)
1 red bell pepper, chopped
1 c of fresh mushrooms, sliced
2 cloves of garlic minced (or 1 tsp of garlic paste)
1/2 tsp of hot sauce (or less if you like)
2 tsp lemon juice
Cheese - any kind and as little or as much as you want!


Cook grits according to directions.  Cook the bacon and set aside.  While the bacon pan is hot add olive oil, saute the bell pepper and mushrooms.  Once the veggies are tender add the garlic and shrimp.  Once shrimp turn pink add lemon juice and hot sauce.  Chop the bacon and add it back to the the shrimp and vegetables.  Blend shrimp and vegetable mixture into grits.  Top with cheese (any kind will do - I like cheddar or shredded parmesan).
Personal note - I hate onions.  Really hate them.  So if you like them add them with your other veggies many people do!

Enjoy!




Menu Plan Monday...




Wow, I can't believe that next Sunday is Easter!  I'm so excited, I love Easter!  But that also means that after this week I'm off to planning someone's second birthday (has anyone else figured out how to make them stay little?).  I'm linking up over at orkjunkie.com so make sure you head over there and check out all of the other menus and blogs linking up!

Sunday - Went to a Birthday Party - two egg hunts, and another birthday party - whew!
Monday - Grilled pork chops, mac&cheese, with squash and zucchini
Tuesday - Shepard's Pie
Wednesday - Spaghetti with salad and garlic bread
Thursday - Teriyaki shrimp with rice and sugar snap peas
Friday - Pizza
Saturday - Date Night Out!!!

I'm also doing a seafood mini series - I'll post the second part this afternoon, unfortunately I couldn't post it over the weekend because we lost power thanks to all the storms we had, we even had transformers blowing out on Sunday because of all the salt build up on them!


Thursday, April 14, 2011

Seafood Mini Series...

 My Hubby with lots of Yellowfin Tuna!

Spring is here and that means the hubby is back to the ocean and out of the boatyard!  This also means more seafood in our diets (like two to three times a week instead of just once).  We do freeze some of his catch to use throughout the winter and we always top off the freezer with shrimp as fall arrives so that we could have it once a week if we'd like and always have plenty to share with friends.  We've been lucky to already have had some fresh yellowfin tuna and wahoo this spring but mostly we're still eating our freezer stash from last year.  Currently on hand we have triggerfish, wahoo, black sea bass, and shrimp. 

Since so many people are scared of seafood for one reason or another I want to start this little series on eating and cooking seafood by dispelling a few myths.

Myth #1.  I don't know how to cook fish.  Pishposh.  If I can do it, so can you!  I used to be scared of cooking seafood but my husband taught me how to cook seafood with confidence all you really need are a few simple tips (more to come)! 

Myth #2. I don't know how to buy seafood.  Rule number one - fish should NOT smell fishy.  Not under any circumstances.  It should smell like the ocean (a bit salty) or like nothing at all.  Rule number two - see rule number one.  Another big tip - buy local if you can.  It may cost a small amount more as many local things do but this is money going back to your community.  Buying local seafood is something that is dear to my heart and something I didn't know the importance of until I loved a fisherman.  Buying local means also buying fresh.  For my North Carolina readers you can go here and learn about buying local.   And for my really local readers, make sure you know the restaurants who serve only Carteret Catch!  I understand not everyone lives close enough to the coast to have a catch of the day for dinner but your butcher should know where your seafood was caught and share that information with you. 

Myth #3.  Seafood can cause cholesterol problems.  Um, maybe if you always eat it fried, but then the seafood isn't the problem.  Seafood has some great stuff in it, large amounts of omega-3 fatty acids and large amounts of DHA, shrimp and other shellfish is also a natural source of iodine, a mineral that we do not normally get unless we use iodized salt in our diets.  As with anything, seafood should be cooked in various ways and eaten in moderation.  Fried shrimp is good once (Hello shrimp burger from El's) in awhile but not everyday. 

Myth #4.  Avoid eating fish because of mercury.  A little biology and chemistry  for ya - mercury is a heavy metal element that is retained in tissues (the parts we eat) and accumulates over time.  Part of what I do is age fish so I can tell you that mahi mahi is beyond safe (they live to be 4 at most and grow at and insane speed), wahoo only live to 7 or 8 also very safe, as are most tunas despite the rumors.  However there are some species that can cause concern, a large king mackerel may be 21 to 25 years old, a large grouper could be in it's 20s as well.  Yes, if you are pregnant and have small children be diligent of the seafood you are serving - but overall it is not a concern - especially if you are consuming seafood once per week or less.

Next up I want to share some of our favorite recipes with ya'll but if you have any questions about seafood or want any other myths debunked (or have questions about these myths) please ask I'll be more than happy to answer!  I majored in marine biology but never thought I'd marry a fisherman and that fish would play such a huge part of our everyday lives so I hope you enjoy this little series!


Tuesday, April 12, 2011

Home and Work and Having to Choose...


I laid in bed and watched Curious George this morning rather than wash my hair for work (thank Heaven for dry shampoo!).  I just wanted to be with my family, drink my coffee and relax - not rush to be stuck behind a desk answering calls to ungrateful, often hateful and rude people.  Most days, I like what I do though, that should be good enough, right?  And despite the lack of gratitude in what I do I feel compelled to do it well.  But I feel like when I'm caught up at work that I'm behind at home and when I'm caught up at home I'm behind at work.  A vicious, vicious cycle and it's wearing me thin.

Ultimately I feel like my obligation is to my husband and child.  I want to be there, I want to be cleaning and cooking and gardening and canning and sewing - not trying to cram it all into weekends wishing for just a few more hours.  Yes, I know it's not 1950.  But this is what I thought about all morning long.  Then I turned on the news - the "American Dream" if you will - feels lost, I don't think $5 for a gallon of gas and milk was ever part of the dream and now harsh reality seems to rule over the dreams of so many.  So I remind myself that I'm lucky and we've far to many blessings to count for me to sulk about actually having a job to go to.  I know somehow I can make it work between work and home, somehow it all will get done and that we as a family will be no worse for the wear.  We've already done this for nearly two years - but now I'm torn because of how aware the little man is.  Now, every day, he asks me - Momma work? - Yes, baby, Momma has to work. Where's Dada? - Daddy's already at work baby, I'm sorry.  I feel like I'm constantly apologizing for working. 

I know I have to work.  I keep reminding myself that this is our way to the house we want to build, this is the way to be able to give little man everything we want him to have.  It's the way to a secure financial future, and that means a lot to us. I know that after having Alan unemployed that we have so much to be thankful for and should keep our heads down keep going and that one day we'll have all of the things we're dreaming of now.

 

Monday, April 11, 2011

Menu Plan Monday...


Spring has definitely sprung around here!  We have spent so much time outside - got the rest of our yard and garden planted over the weekend, leaving me feeling like a need another few days to relax and enjoy it - but it's back to the grind!  I'm linking up over at orkjunkie.com so make sure you head over there and check out all of the other menus and blogs linking up!  I hope everyone has a wonderful week and some beautiful weather to go with it!






Sunday - PW's Perfect Pot Roast
Monday - Pizza and movie (supposed to storm tonight!)
Tuesday - Spicy Shrimp and Rice
Wednesday - Enchiladas
Thursday - Date Night In!  Leftovers for the little man!
Friday - Buffalo chicken bites

Wednesday, April 6, 2011

Toddler Teachings...


One of the things I love most about toddlers is how excited they get over accomplishments - and it seems we have so many everyday (even if the accomplishment is surviving the day!).  I love watching my little guy learn, he soaks up everything so quickly and so I wanted to find a way to help foster the learning he does every day at daycare.

Most of the time he gets to be a wild boy but sometimes he needs to be quiet (like in Church) and sometimes he just needs a stimulating activity instead of Thomas the Train and the pile of wooden tracks!  After some web searching, and blog browsing I found this blog/website.  There are some amazing print outs and lesson plans for tots here!  I made him the "Cars" Tot Book (though mine turned out a bit differently) and it has served us well at some needed quiet times!  I'm planning to make the Noah's Ark book too and leave it in his Church bag.


The second project I whipped up for him came from Homemade By Jill - I love her blog - she is SO talented!  She made Alphabet Flashcards for her little guy and so I printed up little man a set and laminated them!  We keep a set in the car and a set in the house!  And I think they've helped him sure up the ABC's! 


There are also two books that I've consulted for toddler/preschool age projects that are great - the first is Slow and Steady Get Me Ready and the second is Making the Most of the Preschool Years - there are so many fun projects in these two books!  Living at the beach means summer is for play - sand, surf, boats, and always smelling like sunscreen - but this fall I plan on making a more structured learning time for him at home and after he's three we'll send him on to preschool!  I'll keep you posted on the lessons I plan!


Tuesday, April 5, 2011

Have you heard...

that the Nester is having her Spring Giveaway Day?  It is amazing - she has such wonderful sponsors!  One of my favorite's is Lisa Leonard!  She just released a home decor line and I can't wait order some of her keepsakes to help us celebrate our anniversary this fall!  So head over to the Nesting Place and to Lisa's blog to enter for some beautiful giveaways!

Re-purpose...


My little man is rocking potty training!  Three weeks ago I would have told you it was a really bad decision for us to try and potty train before he hit the two year mark but now I'm so glad we went ahead with it!  He's having accident free days, just big boy underwear at nap time, and now he's waking up with a dry pull-up most mornings.  Because of this we're almost ready to let him sleep in his big boy underwear at nighttime and I decided to re-purpose the flannel squares that we used on his changing table and fit them to his crib to buy us a little more time in case of a night time accident!


I simply stitched together some of the flannel squares and burp clothes to fit his crib!  Now I'll hopefully have  a few less wet sheets to change when we go to big boy underwear at night!  It also means it's time to convert his crib and take down the crib rail - which is a little scary!



What baby items have you converted to work for toddlerhood?

P.S. - My wonderful husband got me a new camera!  So I can take pictures to share with everyone again!


Monday, April 4, 2011

Menu Plan Monday...



Whew. I got in trouble for not posting last week - in trouble with my schedule that is!  I saw the importance of meal planning by missing a week - so back to it!  The weather is supposed to be nice this week, only one rainy day, so for us it's quick meals and then back outside to play!

Sunday - French Dips, Mashed Potatoes, and Sugar Snap Peas
Monday - Pioneer Woman's Bowtie Lasagna
Tuesday - Chick Fil A Family Night - not a normal staple of our house, but it's Fire Truck Night and fire trucks are all the rage at our house (we saw one Saturday at a children's festival and little man threw a fit when we had to make him get out of the truck!)
Wednesday - Pizza, usually reserved for Friday but this is done at special request!
Thursday - Teriyaki Shrimp tossed with Pineapple over Rice with Sauteed Squash and Zuchini
Friday - Grilling out!  Steaks for us and Chicken for little man with grilled corn.


Make sure you head over to orgjunkie.com and check out all of the other menus for the week - that's where I'm linking up!